Dogs or cats?
I’ve heard this question countless times. It’s practically a meme: “So… are you a cat person or a dog person?”
My honest answer? Both.
But not in a half-hearted, middle-of-the-road way. I genuinely love both cats and dogs but, for very different reasons. They both hit very different emotional frequencies.
Let me explain.
My dog is my hiking partner. She is always ready to explore, no questions asked. The leash comes out, and the tail starts going. Luna is down for waterfalls, caves, trails, car rides. Whatever, you name it. She is not just an emotional support animal. Luna, an adventure buddy. Loyal, goofy, grounded. It’s true. When it’s cold, there’s comfort in having a warm dog body pressed up against you. When I’m anxious, curling up with her is invaluable. It’s steadying. It feels like a hug from a friend who just knows.
But my cat?
The kitty boys are something else entirely.
Cats are animals of consent. You don’t just get a cat’s love. You have to earn it. They choose you.
My cats are cuddle boys when they want to be. When they are in the mood, there is nothing more comforting than one of them purring into my ribs. But when they are not into it? That’s valid. They have their space. They come back when they are ready. That choice makes the connection feel more sacred.
There’s a respect that develops between a person and a cat. You have to show them that you’re cool before they give you affection. And when they do? It’s like a private little trust pact. That they’re not giving out to just anyone.
Dogs are often ready to love everyone. And I adore that about them.
Cats… they love on their terms. And I respect the hell out of that.
So for me, it’s not a contest.
I love them both.
I love what my dog brings into my life… joy, movement, loyalty, warmth.
I love what my cats bring… presence, autonomy, quiet connection, and consent-based affection.
They’re different souls. Different relationships. Different energies.
I’m lucky to be loved by all of them.
Whisper to the void it might whisper back