Tag: emotional storytelling

  • The Scent of Honeysuckle: How a Summer Smell Carries My Childhood

    The Scent of Honeysuckle: How a Summer Smell Carries My Childhood

    Emotional hiking journal: What hidden smell on this trail makes your chest tighten or expand?

    The Scent of Honeysuckle: How a Summer Smell Carries My Childhood

    There are certain scents that time refuses to let fade. For me, honeysuckle is one of them. One inhale, and I’m no longer standing where I am. Now, I’m transported back to warm West Virginia afternoons when the air was heavy with sweetness, and life was simple enough to fit inside a summer day.

    and the Pools That Raised Me

    Every time I catch that scent, I’m back at the Oglebay Park pool, chlorine in the air and sunlight bouncing off the water. I can almost hear the echo of kids laughing, the splash of cannonballs, and my mom calling from the side to remind me to reapply sunscreen.

    Then I’m at Grand Vue Park in Moundsville. In yet another summer memory stitched together with the same smell. My hair slicked back with pool water, my skin sticky from popsicles, and my heart full of the kind of joy only childhood knows. Those pools weren’t just places to swim; they were where my mom and I found our rhythm. She’d sit in the shade, content just watching, while honeysuckle crept along the fence line and filled the air with something that even then felt sacred.

    The Ballfield and the Blizzard

    Sometimes that same scent meets me at a softball field in my mind. The crack of the bat, the dirt on my cleats, the sting in my arms from connecting just right. I can still feel the weightless moment after hitting a grand slam. There’s my mom’s cheer cutting through the noise, louder than the crowd itself.

    After the game, we’d stop for a cookie dough Blizzard at Dairy Queen with the whole team. I’d be sweaty, dirt-streaked, and proud. She would smile like the world was ours for that one small window of time. That’s what honeysuckle smells like to me… victory, summer, and love.

    The Scent of My Mother’s Hands

    Fresh-cut grass does it too. My mom always took care of everything: mowing the yard, planting flowers, washing the car by hand. She smelled like grass, soil, soap, and sometimes honeysuckle all at once. It was the scent of someone who built comfort out of effort, who held entire summers together with her bare hands.

    Even now, when that smell drifts through a window or lingers on a trail, I pause. I breathe it in like a prayer. Because somewhere in that sweetness, in that green freshness of grass and bloom, she still exists. Not gone… just layered into the air.

    Why Smell Is the Strongest Memory

    Science backs it, sure… the olfactory bulb is tied to emotion and memory. But for me, it’s simpler. Honeysuckle is a time machine. A gentle reminder that some parts of us never grow up, never move on, never stop reaching for the hand that kept us steady.

    It’s more than nostalgia… it’s grounding. It’s a way of saying, I remember. I’m still here. And so is she.

    What smell does this for you on a trail? In a bakery? Anywhere?

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  • My Favorite Thing About Myself: Writing with Empathy, Offering a Voice

    My Favorite Thing About Myself: Writing with Empathy, Offering a Voice


    What’s your favorite thing about yourself?

    My favorite thing about myself is the way I write. Not just the act of writing. The way I can tap into emotions that aren’t mine and still treat them with care. As if I’ve lived them in another life. It’s not performance. It’s empathy. Real, rooted empathy, born from listening and learning, not guessing or stealing.

    I don’t write from other perspectives because I want to show off range. I do it because I believe everyone deserves to be held. To be seen. And sometimes, they can’t say the words themselves, at least not yet. Not out loud or, not safely. So I write what I hear when I listen. I write what I feel when someone trusts me with their story. I write in a way that doesn’t claim their pain, but honors it. Echoes it. Reflects it back gently.

    I love that about myself. I love that I don’t just have the skill to write. But also the heart to write ethically, thoughtfully and, with purpose. I am not here to play at pain. I’m here to translate it. To give shape to the things that ache in silence. I do it through poetry. Poetry allows me the ability to be exact and yet leave room for mystery. It lets me say the same truth in a thousand ways until many individuals feel it and understand it. Shit, maybe they’ll even empathize more with others.

    My poetry has always been more than art. Survival. Scream, prayer, and apology. It has been the safest place I know. I can’t often work my mouth. So, when my mouth won’t open, I find poetry. It’s how I say the things I never felt allowed to say. The map of everything I’ve clawed through, and the love letter to the people still climbing out of similar things.

    I know I can write something and someone else will read it and say, “That’s it. That’s how it feels.” That matters. This is what keeps me going. The idea of being published, not the praise, but the connection. The invisible thread that stretches from my chest to someone else. It’s why I make books. It’s why I write collections. So future people like me, and you if you’re different to know we lived, laughed, and fought like hell.

    I do not write from others experiences as a person I am not. I simply write from my point of view as their friend, family member, co-worker, fellow human etc. Poetry like this comes in reminders to check on others or stand up for causes. It also involves protesting and addressing other subjects that bring hard topics to the front and center.

    My favorite thing about myself is that I can do that. That I can create something honest and resonant. This is not just for me, but for the ones who don’t have the words yet. For the ones who never saw themselves in poems until now. For the ones who are still learning how to say, “I exist. I hurt. I matter.”


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